Alpha Or Nothing: How To Be The Best Version Of Yourself As A Modern Alpha Male by Nour Saidana
Author:Nour Saidana [Saidana, Nour]
Language: eng
Format: epub, azw3
Published: 2020-02-29T15:00:00+00:00
âYou are as strong as the fears you confront on your wayâ
Sometimes itâs very hard to find exactly what your weaknesses are because people hate to criticize othersâand love to criticize, at the same time. Let me explain. We already know how much people love to criticize others on social media. Funny enough, they also donât want to criticizeâtheir friends and family. No one will tell you you are fat. No one will tell you you are ugly. No one will tell you you are poor. The moment you criticize someone you are the one who is rudeâeven though you are right. This creates a world full of hypocrisy.
I always laugh when I see a girl posting a picture and all her girlfriends tell her how beautiful she is while she is average at best. We get rewarded for giving a compliment but get trashed for giving advice. No one asks me for health tips even though I workout. No one asks me for language tips even though I am learning Japanese. No one asks me for anythingâbecause that will hurt their ego(proving that they are doing something wrong). This makes it hard for me to be genuine around my old friends. I hate criticizing people(in this book I speak about people overall, I never mentioned one person specifically). I never criticize anyone whether itâs in my book, on my YouTube channel or anywhere elseâI donât need that to boost my ego. Thatâs because I donât care about peopleâI only compete against MYSELF. I am trying to be me, to be someone differentâan Alphaon. What happens to people doesnât influence my goals. If I get better than who I was yesterday, I win, as simple as that. The only idol that I will ever have is my mom.
However, everytime I hang out with old friends I feel almost fake. I have to pretend that I am average and speak in an average way which I hate doing. The last time I interacted with my best friends, we went to a restaurant and everyone was talking about job salaries. Choosing a job is based on the salaryâaccording to them. What do you mean? Business? I canât even say that word once or I will be the weirdo there. I will not waste my time explaining things to people that wonât understand anyway. You canât force your friends to go up with you. I told you before, if you arenât willing to change everything is meaningless. Everything you will hear from me will go in one ear, then go out from the other one. This kind of âcriticismâ atmosphere is really destructive because people never realize that they are doing things wrong. If no one tells you that your workout program sucks you will spend 5 years to get the same results you can get within 1 year. Thatâs why I want you to learn to accept criticism. Thatâs how you grow.
When someone tells you that something is wrong or bad, you can fix it.
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